The best relationship that you can have… is a relationship with God.  Why? because, its the only way that you will be able to break free, heal and rise back up from the abuse, so the purpose of GOD for YOU can be fulfilled.

How? by learning to understand, find and forgive yourself and through the eyes of God and the best place to get to know God and His promises,  is through “ALONE TIME WITH HIM” and the “BIBLE” as part of your everyday daily morning or night routine, besides only going to Church on Sundays.

A true relationship with God is created on a daily basis, just like anything in life that you will like to learn or make happen for yourself. It takes commitment and discipline to show up daily and give yourself the time to learn to ask, pray and listen to our Father God. He is one to be working on our favor, even when we cant seem to feel him or know about Him at all. This is why it is very important to start that one on one relationship with God, so we may be able to see things through His eyes, and continue to strengthen that relationship for the rest of our lives.

This change like any other change does not happen over night, it happens with time. At the beginning you will have some struggle, because you have been wired by the enemy through the abusive and toxic relationship to get to the low point in your life that you are currently in… I know this so very well because I was there to. A place of fear, no faith, no hope, no believe, no self love and completely broken from the inside out. Yet because I made the choice 9 years ago, that I needed to get out for the sake of my daughter and I, is the reason that today I am here, sharing this with you. Letting you know, that it might seem far from impossible, but its not. Time passes either way, so why not pass the rest of your life turning it around for the better of you and your family, and not staying in a place with a person that is not doing anything for your life except destroying it because they have given in to Devil from their own past experiences and never gave the Lord our Father a chance to help them brake the chains for a better life.

YOU DESERVE SO MUCH MORE….and the only way to get to the place of so much more, is with a relationship with God. You see He knows each one of us very well, after all he did create each one of his children (which is each one of us) to his perfect image, with a purpose already set for us.

The Bible itself tells us that message from God:

Before I formed you in the womb, I knew you, and before you were born I consecrated you; I appointed you a prophet of the nations.

Jeremiah 1:5

You see… you have been choose by God, now is just a matter of taking the time in this brand new year that we are starting today on January 1st, 2021 and the next 365 days of this year to make a full turn, because we are more than capable to overcome all that is there during and left after being in a toxic and abusive relationship. Each one of us just needs to make the decision to want to fight hard along side God to take control back of your mind, body and soul, so you may be able to break free, heal and rise and then help your children do the same. You must remember that your children faced it as well, and they need as much help as you do, to put the pieces back together from being internally hurt from what they saw with their own eyes. As mothers we don’t want our children to have to go through what we did, yet in order to make sure that does not happen, we cannot leave them in the hands of others, we must take matters into our own hands alongside with God.

Give yourself them time… and you will see how things will start to change and how you will start to see things differently through the eyes of God. He is so ready to help you every step of the way, but the only way He can so His part for you, is if you commit starting today to your part with Him.

As a testimony I tell you… I could have not found the strength, removed the fear, found the faith, hope, believe and learned to love myself again if it was not for the decision that I made almost 9 years ago to start my one on one relationship with God, and committed to strengthing it day after day till this day, not matter what the enemy tries to do, to get me to not keep moving forward and fulfill Gods purpose for my life and the life of my daughter, and trust me this past year… how the enemy has tried, yet because of the many years that I have been building my relationship and learning about God and His word, is the reason why I was able to better manage the situation. Our Father God is so much bigger than anything and with time, He will show you his promises and what he has in store for you and your life, as long as you are willing to start your Faith, Hope and Believe journey with Him in a one on one intimate relationship, everything else will follow.

God is amazing, kind, loving, forgiving and so much more ladies. Give it Him a chance, you have nothing to lose, because with God all things are possible because he is the God of making the impossible possible when you believe.

Wishing you all a very happy, safe, blessed, successful, healthy, loving and wealthy 2021 year to you, and may God continue to protect you and your loved ones through each step you take in each brand new day.

Sincerely,

Katherinn De Camillis